My boyfriend was surprised at some of my reactions at first and it was difficult. I had a whole week of being so grumpy I was almost unbearable to be around. It'll pass. Tell her it's not as personal as it feels. Also, I found when he asked me to go out to dinner, etc. and I knew I was a grump that I would just tell him: I'm not fit for human company tonight. He understood after awhile to leave me alone and let me post here or for you, go to a meeting where people understand that you're in transition right now.
