Oh, hippy....I am so sorry I missed this. But I will say it is better that others replied first!
I keep up such guarded boundaries with my family as they are not supportive that I know I would have said, I do not want to talk about this and if it had gone further I would have simply stated that the friend raped me at 7 and could not be considered a friend by any stretch and that I needed to end the conversation.
That and as in Judith's statement of friendship...anyone who hurts my friends, I want to be all over them like a monkey!
many hugs,
Tena