Good question and sorry to hear that there are no Al Anon meetings near you.
You are going through recovery. My wife attends Al Anon solely because she is recovering from my actions. As an alcoholic, my actions affect more than myself but until we are in full recovery, we are too selfish to see that.
Maybe check out the Al Anon website for online literature
Welcome to Al-Anon and Alateen
Keeping them Sober is a book that my wife has which is apparently pretty good.
Keep reading and posting here and also you should check out the friends and family section.
Hope that helps.
