Originally Posted by
Pajarito 
"she needs to know we've moved on."
I'm going to quote my own @#$% self. WHO has moved on? I guess I really haven't yet. Not completely. He obviously has- a long time ago. Has dd moved on? No- it's obvious- at least to me.
I get that I have to separate my feelings from what is best for dd- but right now it HURTS! My chest actually hurts. . . I think I need to process this more than I have. Right now it's just so unbelievable- HOW can that be when he's been gone a year? Denial is a strong foe.