Hi, Back...
I really don't know, but, you may get better answers to your questions in the alcoholism or alcoholism 12 step forums. Here's the links:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-step-support/ http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/alcoholism/
And here's some for the secular based recovery;
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...r-connections/ http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...step-recovery/
I wish you well.
Hope this helps!
Shalom!