[QUOTE=cyclelady;1906637]My 2 questions:
Should I call the police and tell them that he is driving after work when he has had a few?
How do I stop Coding and checking his phone? Obviously that just makes me angry.[QUOTE]
to ?#1 No I wouldn't call the police on him. It will catch up to him. BUt I would not let him drive with the kiddos in the car (not saying he does)
?#2 As you go through your recovery you will be able to stop the checking of things, phones, garbage cans, cars, etc. These are all things you cannot change. He will drink if he wants to. He will lie to you about it. and he will probably blame you for it too.
That is what addicts do. They do it so they can keep on with their addiction.
Glad to hear you are going to Al-anon it is a great place to be. go to meetings often
You fill find lots of comfort there.