We usually go about our normal business when my AH comes home whether he's drunk or not. We greet him like we normally do, and then it's back to whatever we were doing. It's not that we ignore it and pretend it is not there, it's that we aren't going to stop and change our lives around his drinking all the time. BUT when he is in a really bad obnoxious drunkin mood (rare lately for some reason) I do take the kids to the park or out to eat dinner or to visit my mother because we don't want to be around him when he is like that and we decide to leave and go have fun elsewhere and leave him to his miserable self. Maybe that's why he doesn't do it to much anymore, because the audience leaves the building and he is just quacking at our cat. Who knows.
