Originally Posted by
cyclelady 
Can the 9yo seriously see this?
I know now that my kids saw a lot more than I realized. It makes sense to me now because they weren't seeing it through my "filter" of hoping it wasn't true.
IMO, this should be your focus and concern rather than when or how much he is drinking. It is affecting your children. What are you going to do about that?
Originally Posted by
cyclelady Is this a psycological game he is playing with himself, or me?
Both. But you can choose to play along or do something to save yourself and your children. Are you in counseling or Alanon?
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