I have to agree with most here, as hard as it may be for you hearing the kids ask for mom and Dad, it will only be harder after they have seen her again.
Kids don't understand that at such a young age. I mean it sounds good but it is like giving them a present and then taking it away.
Again everyone here says actions speak louder then words with addicts and I know with mine it is a fact, actually I think it is with everyone not just addicts. She needs to prove herself to you no matter how hard that is. Talk is cheap.
((((Painter)))) This has got to be so hard on you, just please take care of you and stay strong.