I hope you stick it out Bamboozle - the thing is...this is a big board - you're always going to get some people who have The Answer, whether it be a program or a philosophy...I've seen them in all shapes colours and sizes.
But all of them, for whatever reason, have one thing in common - they just can't get that one size *doesn't* fit all....
They're actually rather few in number when you look at it - they just make a lot of noise about it.
But that's all it is - noise.
It's annoying, sometimes maddening - but if you let it drive you away, or overshadow the very real good things this place offers, then the zealots win....you lose the support you get here, and we lose one more intelligent reasonable voice...
and that, would suck.
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