((((Painter)))))
I understand your ambivalence; I think I would have similar thoughts. I see the wisdom of Amy's comments aobut the kids and how difficult it might be for them. The one thing I have found in this journey as that it is okay to wait to make a decision...to let things unfold a little bit. Often times, things unfold themselves before I decide or a piece of information I was unaware of suddenly reveals itself. I consider this my HP helping me along to get to where i need to be.
I'm glad things went well for you and the kids in court. Hugs