(((itisatruth)))
It's never an easy answer! Boy do I know that. But, your safety is foremost, above all else. You know what you're dealing with. No minimizing, and no dramatizing, but I guess, if I was honest with my opinion (and that's all this is) I think I would rather you err on the side of caution - for yourself!
Take care of you!
Lots of hugs coming your way!