Silverberry,
You also might want to remember what extreme stress does to your thinking. You're hurting really badly. You're like a switchboard operator handling calls when you've broken your fingers. You're going to make bad decisions. One of the things that helped me in my first divorce was spending lots of time with friends and family. Even to the point of spending nights when they invited me. In fact, in the situation I'm in, I'll probably be moving in with a friend until I get my feet underneath me. That way I won't have to be alone with my own thoughts until I'm ready to be alone. Spend time with the other people that are important to you, most people have an open heart, and sensitive natures, and will be more than willing to help you through the rough patch.
Redd