If one wants to completely detach, but has to have some contact because of children, text messageing is great. Simple one liners...
Examples....
Can you pick up child at 6pm, and return at 8pm?
Childs dentist appt is at 3pm can you bring him?
Gas bill due on Sept 10th.
Childs basketball game at 7pm
Parent teacher conference (date and time).
If he/she calls, let the answer machine take the call if possible.
Contacting this way stops alot of mental/emotional torment.
NH7
Last edited by NeedingHelp7; 09-08-2008 at 06:51 AM.