Originally Posted by
jrsl 
I HATE alcohol because of this and something needs to happen. I dont want to waste my life waiting around for someone to act normal.
Reread what you wrote. You know what you need to do. I knew what I needed to do but the problem was I was afraid, embarrassed, ashamed, and easily manipulated by the alcoholic. I knew, but I didn't want to see and that went on for 18 years.
My wish for you is that you give yourself the time you need to figure out what it is that you want. I found a counselor that has helped me tremendously. Thanks for posting and keep coming back.