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Originally Posted by
jrsl 
I know if one of my friends were in my position I would tell them to leave!
So, why not follow the advice you would give to another? What is it that keeps you in a relationship that makes you miserable?
Originally Posted by
jrsl I dont want to waste my life waiting around for someone to act normal.
So don't! You cannot change him or save him. Only he can do that. I think you know that by know. You can change yourself and take action to give yourself the life you want and deserve. You can prevent yourself from being dragged down along with him.
Its not easy. But if you work on yourself and decide what you want from your life, it will lead you to a better place.