(((Maggie)))
Like everyone else said, you feel like this because you're a mom.
Just because you KNOW he has to face his consequences to learn from them, doesn't mean you're going to like it.
You're doing the right thing...giving him the gift of learning that all actions have consequences. You're going to have good days and bad...just stay strong and believe that everything is happening the way it's supposed to.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy