thanks for your post. I think these things were excuses and America is also a place where he can get drugs. He doesnt have any contacts here so it is not really an option. I called him in all his excuses and told him that he had come so far and why blow it all and to get to a meeting. He didnt like that much but he ended up going to a meeting last night. I try not to control him and tell him what to do but I cant be a fool either and believe his nonesense. He has to work a programme wherever in the world he is living.
Thanks for the support
