So Cats, Ann and hope - before I replied to this thread, I'd started another one about detachment, boundaries and wondering how you've achieved that. It ties in with this thread of sorts I guess. I really admire how FIRM your stance is. How you truely do let go. Not to hijack this thread, but would love your responses in the other one I'd started. It seems many on here (myself included) can give the correct advice to someone in need here when dealing with addiction. But it's very hard to incorporate that into action in my own life.