Originally Posted by
jener81 
I am holding onto and remember how he used to be and how he could be again. He was amazing. And he has amazing potential. I refuse to stop believing he can be that person again. The real man I love, not the dull vacant stare he is some of the time these days.
Life is a long and winding road, even under the best of circumstances most people meet an average potential rather than an amazing one. You add the fact that he is not wanting to meet that potential,
only you are. Add to the fact that he is actively running in the
opposite direction. Successful people want success for themselves and then act and work to acheive it, nobody else can do it for them. What I want to know, is why is a fabulous, loving person like you is not running after her own amazing life and instead is hanging around a self-destructive beau and his family?