Originally Posted by
respektingme 
Ultimately, if would be soooooooooooo nice if my DH really spoke the truth.
Yup. And if he can't do that, well, he can deal with the consequences of whatever lies he chooses to tell. I ahve to question how much he is actually in recovery if he cannot be truthful with his family. I would think honesty is part of any recovery program.
Originally Posted by
respektingme Till then, I still feel like I don't know what to do as far as responding to any of them.
As I see it, it's perfectly ok to say "I don't want to discuss it." No one is required to discuss anything with anyone they don't want to.