Since I’m still working on that myself, I can’t say too much. But, basically, it shows you how to accept the fact that you can’t control what another person does. It shows you that you CAN’T get your head around the goofy crap they do, so stop trying. It’s amazing the peace that comes when you make this realization. I’m not totally there yet, but I have my moments, and they are wonderful, and increasing as I practice more and more.
I, too, HATE conflict. But, you start to realize that they know this, so they create it in an effort to intimidate/manipulate you. Once you see it for the game it is, it loses its power to affect you.
Check some out, and see what you think. I know in SE MI there’s lots to choose from. If you need help finding one, I’ve got a directory. (Don’t mean to get too personal, but I know I had a hard time finding the motivation to get to that first one. My girlfriend dragged me with her). Never know till you try!!
juju