Isort of detached while still living with xAH. At that point in time I knew nothing about what I to do but sort of accidentally detached. xAH lived in that house as roommates rather than a married couple. We rarely spent time around each other. I didn't argue wih him. I didn't tlak to him. But I couldn't stay and detach as I have now come to understand it. I left. Its what worked best for me.