Originally Posted by RobbyRobot

yeah, there are shy men and shy women too. I totally agree we all need boundaries which are healthy for us, and for others so that they know how to approach us. it is great that you want to define those boundaries for yourself.

personally i have multiple boundaries depending on the situations and the people involved, and i keep them dynamic and fluid. static unchanging boundaries are not very efficient. its rewarding you'll find claiming your personal space!

all my very best, Toomutch!

RR