We’re here for you!! Take a minute to think, don’t react instantly.
My ah and I tried counseling twice. Each time, he would be loving it at first, thinking it was the greatest thing. Then, the dr would want to see me, to hear “my side”. Let’s just say ah didn’t always paint an accurate picture, and as soon as “my side” was out there, he didn’t want to go anymore. My point being, who knows what has been said between those two, and, frankly, who cares?
Don’t let this stranger give you guilt, no matter what his title is. I’m sorry you’re going through this pain right now, but see it for what it is - another chapter in his “All About Me” book. The deadline is nearing, and with no other prospects, who better than a “professional” to argue his case with you?? “She won’t listen to me, but maybe she’ll listen to dr. so-and-so...”
Take care of you. Act, don’t react.
(((((hugs)))))
juju