I don't think I'm compelled to pour wine everyday no, more like force of habit. I have spent a long time trying to work out exactly what my relationship with alcohol is exactly and I'm no nearer finding out.
I suppose one simple way of finding out would be to not go out and buy any wine and stay in and try and drink tea?
I think the bigger issue, for me personally, is that I really do love wine and real ale. I don't drink any old rubbish and love all the flavours and different brews. That is what I would miss.
I just want to be able to drink in moderation and enjoy the taste and the social side of drinking.