check in post to say I am going offline for several days, goin up to Quebec city for the first time, I am very excited =) and as it turns out, it is with my ex. we had a very long talk after the one I wrote about, and we are giving things another try. he is happy about my sobriety and I am too.
One thing I have been thinking is to make sure that I am doing this for me, and I feel that I am, since we were split up for some time and I came to the decision before we were talking again. Yet I recognize the potential hazard there, of going back, getting comfortable, and then thinking "oh everything's fine now, so I can drink socially right??"
WRONG!
so once again I have my plan for the weekend. It will be easier w him because he is pretty much sober all the time, and may drink a glass of champagne very rarely (must be nice to be able to do just that!!)
I want to wish everyone a good weekend and for everyone struggling you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Congratulations Bostonlov on 30 days!! I am inspired to make it there too =)
take care all and remember keep it simple! --noba
