Thank you so much for responding. I haven't tried any other types of counseling or groups. We are going to go to counseling so that we can make this as easy as possible. I have SO much resentment built up towards him that I can't even begin to say.Right now I want so much to go and tell his girlfriend all about him. I'm not going to stoop to his level though. I'm better than that. Honestly I think he decided to stay with her because he knew that I was not immediately comming back to him if at all. Staying with her means that he doesnt have to be alone with himself. I think to him t hat would be torture. Maybe part of it is too that I didn't think that he would find someone this quick. I so want him to have to be lonely. He has made me feel that way for so long, I just want him to know the feeling.
Someone on this board said it best once when they said that they already had the best of him in their kids. Thats kind of how I feel right now. SHe can have whats left.