It truly was an AHA moment.
I have been ignoring his ILY texts and he finally asked what was wrong. I wasn't going to reply but I just said I saw him at OW's parents and it brought back the pain and hurt. He said he was there doing something for her mom. Then went on to say I was going to be a lonely woman because I make things up in my head.
Hmmm....was it all in my head that you are a drunk? Was it all in my head that you have been having an affair for the past year when I was pregnant and kept telling me she was just your friend?