Hi Saliena and welcome,
All I can say is that I can certainly relate. I too am a 33 year old woman with a bad drinking problem. I haven't had gastric bypass but oddly enough, I know a woman who did who also started drinking heavily after her surgery. I think you have certainly come to the right place for friends and support, I count the SR group as among the finest people I've ever known. So hang around for a while, I am sure you'll learn a lot. I know I have.
Good luck!
fd