My husband and I don't always see things eye to eye about our daughter.(84 days clean and living at home after being gone for the last 2+ years) But I have really been trying to stay out of their problems. I tell my daughter that sometimes people can't give you what you want out of them. It is their issue to work through. During those times you have to give yourself what others can't or won't. Trying to stay out of it is hard work and you need to be gentle with yourself. Hugs, Marle