Perhaps it time to try some new things. With the house, if you don't stand to lose much equity, there are a number of ways to step away and not be penalized. With the job dissatisfaction, start looking for something better. Change the work out routine since sometimes our bodies just get "stuck" when doing the same routine for a long time.
I know this rough patch feels like its endless. I know we can slip into feeling like God is not paying attention to our needs. But this too shall pass. And perhaps it's that you are listening to what God is offering. {hugs]