[QUOTE=justaboutus;1869367] I'm going to play the separation card first because it will work in my favor come filing time. QUOTE]
Justaboutus,
I'm new here too, and wondering what advice you were given about this? I also saw an attorney who told me legal separation is 90% of the way to a divorce and not looked upon much differently by the court. Could just be a difference in where we live? Just wondering. We are in a very similar place. My AH also denies there is a problem (except for me), and that he will not consider counseling in any way, shape or form.