I'm not so sure we're even on his radar. There was a time when I thought I'd mind being divorced, but not now. I think DD will do ok with it too (better than she's dealing with the situation now anyway). Dealing with the visitation thing is going to SUCK! I really dread that.
I just don't want to get brainwashed by empty promises again. I'm keeping a journal and have been told to read it when I think things are looking up. I did once and got furious all over again, and started interviewing lawyers.