I'm totally leaving just for mine and my daughter's sake. He's making me sick... physically. I'm depressed, anxious, worried... you name it. My DD is too, she hasn't slept in her own bed in over a month now. She sleeps with me, cries if she doesn't. My counselor just said to let her do it, she obviously needs extra attention now and if this makes her comfortable, let her do it. I don't want her to grow up in this home.
I know this sounds bad, but I kinda hope he doesn't change. I feel like if he did make changes, I'd be tempted to stay... see how things worked out... oh he fell off the wagon... I'm afraid I'd be back where I was months ago so easily. It'll be easier if he continues to be a jerk.
I'm hopeful with some stories from the trenches, I can prepare myself.