It really is a matter of self respect, NH. I've had a few one night stands but once I had my children, I respected mySELF and THEM more than to ever do that again.
Really serious question for you - how is sleeping with him helping him to recover? Or you for that matter?
Not a hypothetical question, just something for you to think about.
And, btw, you don't need a man to fulfill your desires...you're capable of doing that for yourself.
(((((( NH ))))))