So I will admit I often make attempts at seeing my XABF. Well, I gave up finally - realizing he can learn how to make effort. Our relationship has always been one-sided..... I plan activities, I make sure the money is where it's supposed to be, I forgive him for being an idiot.....
Anyway, I stopped making an effort - well NOW he wants to come over today "to pick up the mail." I know that this is just an excuse, but I also know I will end up sleeping with him. Is this bad? I'm not enabling him by providing food, shelter, fun, blah blah blah..... but sometimes we "Accidentally" (hehehe that was a lie) end up in bed.
HELP! I know there isn't much I can do but say no - but during all of this, I still love him, I can't stand the thought of anyone else, and heck! A girl needs some attention every now and again....
Ugh.....am I completely WRONG?
