This is some of the things I have learned.
Sometimes they will say they want to stop, and sometimes they really want to. The trick is to want to stop when the craving kicks in, and to stop ALL the time, and to want to stop ALL the time... It's not called a "controlled substance" for nothing.
LOCK UP YOUR VALUABLES, JEWELRY ETC.!!!! I had a hard time letting go and I am still having a hard time. My mistake was that I never thought he would take MY things and pawn them... He did... Please learn from my heartache.... If for today you don't know what to do, this is fine... I don't either. But protect yourself and your valuables...