Hi MountainGirl and JayHay,
JayHay, I am sorry you are having such an awful time with your husband. It is so hard for us to understand that we have a genetic condition that we cannot change, and can only live with, hopefully happy and sober, or miserable and drinking, or dead. Since we alcoholics want to believe we are no different, I guess it is understandable that our friends and family who do not have the problem will not understand, at least until time passes and they find out we do not turn green or anything when we are sober. Still, I am so sorry for you you have to face this.
Mountaingirl, you hang in there. We will both try to hang in there. I want to actively address this book next week; this week is too busy...
Hugs, Gianna