Hi Mountaingirl,
Sorry I didn't get your pm, sounds like you put a lot of work into it! I didn't realize I had so many old PMs just sitting there. They are gone now, so if you want to try typing it again....just kidding.
As far as the book, I've put a little dent in it. Too busy around here to start during the holidays. I made it through xmas eve and xmas day, and a few days after. I've drank several beers during the last couple days though - sad to say. I've had several discussions with my husband about this. He's had a hard time accepting that I'm an alcoholic. He even went out and bought a 6 pack, and told me there is a surprise for me in the fridge. ARGH. Of course I drank it. Not blaming him though, it was my stupid choice.
We had a good serious talk today though, and I spelled out exactly what I need from him (and don't need!). I think he understands now. I've even suggested that he read the book Under the Influence" too, and assist me with the recovery workbook.
Enough of my blather. How are you doing?
Jay