Originally Posted by
thinktoomuch 
mattcake -- I hope I didn't put you off!
LOL, not at all!! You got me thinking about stuff... Labels, identity, black and white thinking.. Those are big issues for me. I thought it would be a good idea to start this thread because, among other reasons, I'm looking forward to learning from other people's points of view. So I really appreciated your comments, thanks
Also, I really wanted to encourage GLBT newbies (or oldies) that might be struggling with that aspect of themselves to discuss it openly.