Personally, I like it when not only one person, but several point out what I'm doing wrong, especially when I'm whining about my AH's behavior. I have a very hard time seeing my own faults but am very quick to point out somebody elses. I figure if 5 addicts can tell me about my Codie behavior, I must be codependent. I used to resent that something was "wrong" with me now too as a result of AH's disease - now SR is a reality-check for me. I know if I put something out there, I'm going to get honest and real feed-back, with love.
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