I like it here and come and go in spurts,TBH sometimes I need a break from the drama, and sometimes I take really long breaks! LOL!!. Without a doubt SR is a great resource for people that are hurting and it has been a huge help to me. I find the F&F forum in particular to be a smoldering powder keg by unintentional design. Here we have codependents helping and "teaching" other codependents on how not be codependent and at the same time not take credit for, take owner ship of, or feel responsible for anothers recovery.
This was from another thread yesterday that summed it all up for me.
Originally Posted by
miss communicat 
Its a profound error of codependent thought to assume we are THAT important as to be the essential ingredient in a person's successful recovery...... To do so is over controlling, arrogant and wrong because it derails the focus from our own responsibility to recover onto somebody else's journey.
Talk about profound. What an intense challenge for codies to support codies in a non codie way!