My daughter is my addict. She is 22. She was with her abf for 2+ years. He was 17 years older than her and had a good job and provided her with all her drugs (opiates). I never thought that she would leave him. She had everything that she wanted, plenty of drugs and no responsibilities. But, like you, she did want better for her life and Memorial Day she called and asked for help. She has 65 days clean and will be coming home on Saturday to continue her recovery here. She has plans for aftercare and will be attending IOP and AA meetings. You can change your life. It is possible. Hugs and Welcome, Marle