I'm right there with you, I tried and tried to drink in moderation, but I just can't. I finally convinced myself that no more alcohol forever was the answer. Now I try to focus on everyday life without alcohol. I had to "Man-up" and admit that, sure I could drink and have fun, but I couldn't stop.
Also after you have kids the world changes. I remember several times being home with the kids and knowing that if I had to drive them to the doctor or whatever, I couldn't.
Last thought, I have talked to my wife about it, she drinks (Responsibly) (SP?) She was sad to see it go from our life together. We enjoy traveling and wine and night-caps etc. But for the over-all relationship and parenthood, it's better that I do not drink anymore...
Heavy