Wow, lots of opinions here and I've found them all useful in the manner I'll reply on this forum in the future!
Taz, I've always felt very welcomed here, and if I haven't it's because my reply probably wasn't very thoughtful or compassionate, that has taught me to "pause and consider before I put pen to paper" so to speak.
I'm very grateful for what everyone shares on SR, and I think it's beneficial to cross into another forum and share if we have some helpful experience. In the event that our share isn't in the best intent of helping the OP, then I hope a mod our member will respectfully inform us to consider our motives the next time we post.
OK I'm done babbling. Thanks for making me feel like a part of the family here.