I am definately loads and loads better at letting other adults solve their own problems, take their own responsibilities etc.
I am most often struck with the realisation that I do not extend the same amount of curtousy toward my daughter. Perhaps it is because she is only 10yrs that I go into automatic mode and caretake for her, do things for her she can do her self. I find myself doing it often and have to stop, apologise and let her finish a task I took over.
I have definately found it easier to let go and stop fixing adults!
Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx