lizw

I even said OMG and laughed outloud when I read this. It reminds me how we alcoholics/addicts are pretty creative when it comes to finding excuses to justify the way we live i.e.the drinking and/or using.

I am glad you have enough common sense to see that there is nothing you have done or not done to get him using or get him using. I'd also be backing right away from any kind of deal with him that goes, "if you get clean, I will (fill in the blank)"

I have to also echo what the previous posting says, in terms of, why do you feel you have to do something? It's his problem not yours. Your problem is learning how to live with it all, as it is. Or choosing not too.

:ghug