Mrs Nici,
Whow what did I do! I did not want this to happen thats for sure. I want you all to know I have nothing to hide from my husband especially my difficultys in our relationship. I showed him what i had a problem with, I agree with the privacy part on a healthy relationship. I do have a healthy relationship with that comes ups and downs. To 12 step girl thanks I am not in danger. Too ann yes recovery supports recovery, and we are both learning..
I also want to apologize to mr nici for I did not congragulate him on staying clean Mr. Nici I support you through thick and thin. the road just gets rough sometimes, I love you !
Juls I agree i need to learn to not be affected my these moods for they pass perhaps we can learn together!
I thank all of you for all the support.