Nici please do find a program of recovery for yourself there are many things you can learn.
Nici 's husband,
Continue with your program and congrats on your determination to stay sober. I wish you both well and once wife has her program of recovery as in all relationships I hope you will meet half way.
Be well you two, it takes a lot of love and support on both sides, I know, I'm the alcoholic in my marriage.